The November Things to do Checklist
Think about it for a second, the most aesthetic moments of your life probably didn’t cost you anything. They were free. They were ordinary. They just felt extraordinary because you were actually paying attention.
November hits different.
It’s that sweet spot between Halloween chaos and holiday stress where you can actually slow down and romanticize your life. And the best part? You don’t need a single new candle, sweater, or Instagram-worthy prop to do it.
This is your permission slip to have the coziest, most intentional, most aesthetic November without spending a single dollar.
Let’s get into it.
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1. Turn Your Bed Into Your Favorite Place
Okay, so this sounds simple, but when’s the last time you actually thought about your bed as more than just where you sleep?
This week, strip everything off and wash it all. If you have vanilla extract in your kitchen, add a capful to the rinse cycle. Your sheets will smell like sugar cookies and you’ll wonder why you never did this before. While everything’s in the wash, give your mattress a quick vacuum. I know, I know—but trust me on this one.
When you’re making your bed again, do it slowly. Smooth everything out like you’re preparing a space you actually want to spend time in. Grab that throw blanket that’s been living on your couch and add it as an extra layer.
The whole thing takes maybe forty minutes, and suddenly your bed feels like a completely different place. More intentional. More yours.
2. Build a Playlist That Matches the Month
Music just hits different when it actually matches your mood, right?
Open Spotify, YouTube, or Apple Music and start something new. Call it whatever feels good—”november brain” or “for the quiet days” or literally anything that makes sense to you.
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Add songs that make you want to sit by a window and just exist for a while. The kind of music that doesn’t demand your attention but makes everything feel a little softer. A little more intentional. Maybe it’s Phoebe Bridgers. Maybe it’s piano covers. Maybe it’s that one song from that show you keep rewatching. Whatever makes November feel like November to you.
Let it play while you’re getting ready in the morning, or making dinner, or doing absolutely nothing on a Sunday afternoon.
3. Take Yourself on a Weekly Walk
Not a workout walk. Not an errand walk. Just a walk where the whole point is noticing things.
Once a week, leave your headphones at home. I know that feels weird at first, but it feels so good walking with just your thoughts and whatever sounds are actually around you.
Look for stuff you’ve never noticed before. The neighbor’s garden you walk past every day but have never really seen. The cat that’s always in the same window. Trees that are holding onto their leaves longer than others. Take photos if something catches your eye. A pretty leaf. Interesting architecture. The way shadows fall on the sidewalk.
These walks start to feel less like exercise and more like this little ritual you do just for yourself. It’s grounding in a way that’s hard to explain.
4. Rearrange Something in Your Space
You don’t have to redecorate your whole apartment. Just move some things around.
Start small. Clear off your nightstand or your desk and actually look at what’s been sitting there. Do you need all of it? Does it make you happy? Or is it just stuff that accumulated over time? Then try moving one piece of furniture. Push your bed to the other wall. Angle your reading chair toward the window. Move your desk so you’re facing something you actually want to look at.
It sounds almost too simple, but changing your physical space even a little bit changes how you feel in it. Your room becomes less of a background and more of a place you actually chose.
5. Start Writing Down Good Things
I’m not going to call it a gratitude journal because that phrase makes it sound more precious than it needs to be.
Just grab a notebook you already have–could be anything, even a random one from college—and before bed, write down three specific things from your day. Not big things necessarily. Just real things. “My roommate made me laugh so hard I couldn’t breathe.” “The way the afternoon light came through my window.” “How good my breakfast tasted this morning.”
It takes two minutes. And on days when everything feels heavy, you can flip back through and remember that good moments happen all the time, you just forget to notice them.
6. Cook Something That Takes Time
Once a week, make something that isn’t about efficiency. Something that actually takes a while.
Look at what you already have in your kitchen and find a recipe that uses it. Then just… take your time with it. Chop things slowly. Let stuff simmer. Actually follow the recipe instead of trying to speed through it.
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Set your table before you eat, even if it’s just you. Put your phone in another room. Sit down and actually taste your food instead of eating while scrolling.
There’s something really lovely about cooking when you’re not rushing. When it’s not just fuel but something you’re actually present for.
7. Try a Phone-Free Hour
What if one morning a week, you just didn’t look at your phone for the first hour?
I know that sounds borderline impossible. But maybe try it this Sunday. Don’t check anything. Don’t scroll. Just wake up and move through your morning like you did before phones took over everything.
Make your morning water slowly. Sit by the window. Write in a journal. Stare at the ceiling. Whatever feels natural when you’re not immediately filling your brain with everyone else’s content.
You might be surprised how much quieter your head feels.
8. Make a “Right Now” Snapshot
This is just a list of where you are at this exact moment in your life.
Open your notes app and write “Currently: November 2025” at the top. Then fill in things like what you’re reading, what you’re watching, what you’re working on, how you’re feeling, what you’re trying to figure out. Update it whenever it feels right. Once a week, or whenever things shift.
In a few months, you’ll look back at this and remember exactly who you were right now. It’s like a time capsule that takes thirty seconds to make.
9. Let Yourself Do Absolutely Nothing
This is probably the hardest one because we’re all so bad at it.
But one afternoon this week, block off a couple hours and literally schedule nothing. No plans. No productivity. No self-improvement tasks.
Just exist. Lay on your couch. Watch how the light moves across your wall. Pet your cat for twenty minutes straight. Look out the window. Let your mind wander wherever it wants to go.
It might feel uncomfortable at first, I love it though personally. But that’s exactly why we need to practice it.
10. Clean Up Your Camera Roll
When’s the last time you actually went through your photos?
Spend one evening deleting all the blurry ones, the accidental screenshots, the fifteen takes of the same selfie. Then organize what’s left into albums that actually mean something.
Make one for your people. One for places that mattered. One for random moments that made you happy. Going through old photos is weirdly emotional. You’ll find things you completely forgot about. Days that seemed ordinary at the time but look important now.
Plus, your phone will finally stop yelling at you about storage.
11. Write Letters You Won’t Send
Get a notebook and just write. Letters to anyone. Your past self, your future self, someone you miss, someone you’re upset with.
Be completely honest because no one’s ever going to read these. Say all the things you can’t say out loud. You’re never sending them. That’s the whole point.
It’s just about getting thoughts out of your head and onto paper where you can actually see them. It helps you process things instead of letting them spin around endlessly.
12. Find Your November Scent
You don’t need to buy anything new. Just be intentional about the scents you already have around you.
Maybe you layer that lotion with that body spray you never use. Maybe you dab vanilla extract behind your ears (yes, really). Maybe it’s just the smell of cold air that clings to your jacket after a walk. Pick something and stick with it all month. It’ll become the smell you associate with November 2025.
Years from now, you’ll catch that scent somewhere random and immediately remember this time in your life. Scent memory is powerful like that.
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13. Dance in Your Living Room
I’m serious. Pick one day a week and just dance.
Close your blinds if you’re self-conscious. Turn your music up. And move your body in whatever way feels good, even if it looks ridiculous. Sing badly. Jump around. Be completely unselfconscious because no one’s watching.
This isn’t about exercise, even though it technically is. It’s about remembering what it feels like to just be joyful and silly and free.
14. Watch the Sun Rise or Set
Commit to catching either the sunrise or the sunset once a week.
If you’re a morning person, (you should be 😌) wake up fifteen minutes earlier one day. Make your hot lemon water glass and sit somewhere you can watch the sky change. If mornings aren’t your thing, pause whatever you’re doing when the sun’s going down. Step outside or just sit by your window.
You can take a picture if you want, but you don’t have to. Sometimes it’s nice to just watch something beautiful without documenting it.
15. Make Your Own Comfort Menu
Think about what actually makes you feel better when you’re having a rough day. Not what you think should help—what actually does.
Make a list. Taking a long bath. Rewatching your comfort show. Making tea in your favorite mug. Reorganizing a drawer. Going for a drive with good music. Put this list somewhere you’ll see it. In your notes app, on your fridge, wherever.
Next time you’re spiraling, you’ll have actual options instead of just doom-scrolling until you feel worse.
16. Keep a Running List of Moments
Start a note on your phone called “things I want to remember” or something similar.
Whenever something happens that feels worth keeping, write it down. Just the moment itself, nothing fancy.
“That random family trip to ice cream parlor.” “Something valuable someone said in a YouTube video.” “That perfect coffee at a new cafe.”
These add up faster than you’d think. And on hard days, you can scroll through and remember that your life is full of tiny, beautiful things.
17. Clean Up Your Social Media
Go through who you follow and be honest about how they make you feel. I don’t like social media if you ask me. I am either not using them, deleted them, or only there for my blog.
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If someone’s content makes you feel bad about yourself, unfollow. If they make you feel anxious or behind or like you need to buy things—unfollow.
You don’t owe anyone your attention, and your feed should make you feel good, not worse. Follow people who inspire you without making you feel inadequate. Who teach you things. Who make you laugh. Whose content actually adds something to your day.
This takes ten minutes and genuinely improves your daily life.
18. Create Simple Rituals for Morning and Night
You don’t need an elaborate routine. Just small things that bookend your day.
Morning could be: make bed, drink water, stretch for a minute, make coffee, write one thing you’re looking forward to. Night could be: phone away by nine, wash face, jot down three things from today, read for ten minutes.
Keep it simple enough that you’ll actually do it. The point isn’t perfection—it’s just creating little moments that make regular days feel more intentional.
19. Learn Something Just Because
Pick one thing you’ve been curious about and spend November learning it.
YouTube has free tutorials for everything. How to French braid your own hair. Basic Italian phrases. One song on guitar. How to make sourdough starter. Literally anything.
I personally learn the historical facts related to temples. 😌 Fifteen minutes a day. By December, you’ll know how to do something you didn’t know in October.
Not because it’s useful or productive. Just because you wanted to.
20. Have a Weekly Reset Day
Choose one day where you do all the boring but necessary things. Laundry, cleaning, meal planning, organizing.
But make it pleasant. Play music you like. Wear your comfiest clothes. Take breaks. Light the candle you existing have.
The goal isn’t to make everything perfect—it’s just to set yourself up so Monday doesn’t feel overwhelming before it even starts.
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21. Practice Being Present (Like, Actually Present)
You know how sometimes you’re doing something and you’re not really there? Your body’s going through the motions but your brain is already three hours ahead or two days behind?
This month, try catching yourself in those moments and gently pulling yourself back.
When you’re making your milk or coffee, actually notice it. The smell, the warmth of the mug in your hands, the taste of that first sip. When you’re walking somewhere, look around instead of being stuck in your head. Notice the sky, the temperature, how the air feels.
It sounds small, but these tiny moments of presence add up. They’re what make regular days feel fuller, richer, more like a life you’re actually living instead of just getting through.
November is happening right now. You might as well be here for it.
22. Think About How You Want December to Feel
Before December chaos hits, take thirty minutes to think about next month.
Not what you want to do—how you want to feel. Peaceful? Connected? Present? Less stressed? Write down free things that could help create those feelings. This becomes your guide when December gets overwhelming.
You’re not trying to make it perfect. Just more intentional. I do it do. And kind of, everyday. I have a cute little diary where I just write down not much but a few things that I would like to happen in December. And sometimes, they just do! ☺️
That’s Manifestation, right? 🥹
The Thing About Aesthetic Living
It’s not about having the right stuff or the perfect space or the most beautiful life to document. It’s about paying attention to the life you already have.
It’s about being present in regular moments instead of always waiting for something better to happen.
November is going to pass whether you notice it or not. The days will get shorter and colder and everything will naturally slow down. You can fight that, or you can lean into it. You can keep waiting to feel like your life is beautiful, or you can start noticing the beauty that’s already there.
You don’t need to spend money to have an aesthetic month. You just need to show up for the one you’re already living.
So here’s to November. To noticing things. To being present. To free joy and quiet moments and making ordinary days feel special just by paying attention to them.
Welcome to your most intentional month yet.
What’s on your November bucket list? 🥹 Please share your favorite ways to make this month feel special in the comments—I’d love to hear what you’re planning!
